You can support him but don't try and do it for him or he'll never change. No sense into telling her she would never believe her if she told her. See,I feel I did the right thing because everyone deserves to be with a loyal partner and I think women should look out for each other. Do I let it slide? Forget the cheating, he was never going to be compatible with you, beause he isn't poly. Rejection hurts no matter what the situation is.
Do not engage in drama afterwards. If he really respected you as all partners should then he wouldn't be cheating on anyone; he'd end the relationship that he was unhappy in and start one with you properly. What happens when you find out the ex who cheated on you is now marrying the girl he cheated on you with? She will haunt our relationship forever and he will always be in contact with her for the sake of that little girl. So she hopefully she won't be stuck with a jerk like him. It took me quite a while but slowly I made up my mind to end the marriage.
Well, to me it seems like he regrets what he has done, and usually men tend to run away from their emotions to avoid making a big deal of everything. I went through that with my ex husband until i had enough. It is difficult to endure, especially if you have feelings towards him, but try and understand both sides of view. Have some respect for yourself and refuse him until he is single. She told me how he had been a serial cheater with her.
Of course I knew what his job entailed, and to many, he was a hero fighting for our country. About the Author Liz was raised in a small Norman Rockwellesque city in Western New York State. He was in the forces, so he was away a lot. I tried to believe because it was so surprising to see things go perfect in just 3days. He might be ignoring you because he feels a sense of guilt for going against the commitment that he made to his girlfriend, and because he wants to pursue a long term relationship with her. More often than not, they shoot the messenger.
Honestly allot of this is hypothetical and guess work based on previous knowledge and experiences with different people. I left him, but he came back, asking for a second chance, promising to never hurt me again. I know it's not that simple, because it means you'll be on your own again. Give her details such as dates and times so she has good information without knowing your name etc. Do you really care, or are you lying to yourself? I mean, who the hell takes back a man who cheats on you with a girlfriend of four years, who he has a house with and is in the forces working away for most of the year, after just four months of sleeping with him? I really do ont see why you are even thinking about tis. Best of luck to you a man can be attracted to multiple women at once. You're not his girlfriend so he doesn't have to answer you back.
If he wants to become better for you, he'll do it on his own. He has always despised men who cheat and I have always felt so calmed by his stance on infidelity. She seems like a good person and deserves better. If you really like this guy and want things to work out you need to make sure he talks things out with the first girl in order to make things work with you. He seems to be very good at his game and can fool many women into believing his stories and lies. Reading your posts, you obviously have no respect or dignity for yourself. Perhaps try and find someone else who can fully commit to you and fulfil your needs, so that maybe you could just remain friends with this 'fling'.
He and you are both cheating on his girlfriend. Would you be okay with that? As in, I'm not a serial cheater: I'm a mono-cheater. Remember that you didn't cheat on the girlfriend - he did. You need to find a way to make peace with each other and focus your energies on making the best possible situation for the child. Look up sociopath, if he has most of those qualities, he won't change.
I filed for divorce and life as I knew it would never be the same. He started leaving me for other women and got himself new girlfriends and he's cheated on all of them with me and denies it to them. Then as an added step, you should get a divorce. Your bad for sleeping with someone who is just a hookup and then being surprised. Just so you know, you don't deserve a guy like this.