If you loose the person as a friend entirely unlikely, but possible , then at least you'll know that he or she was not worthy of your love in the first place. She will continue to cuddle and hug you, not knowing all you want is the cuddling to lead to kissing. Since that feeling is in the conscious mind, how coud someone not be sure of whether or not it is love? Because you never run out of things to talk about. Call them late at night or take them for a late night walk and sing the song to them. If you think he or she likes you, then you should go for it.
I just fuck and let her go every single time. Whether it is her birthday, wedding, or a new born baby, there will come a moment when you will want to tell your best friend how much you love her. Thank You for Some of the Best Times of My Life Tell your best friend that you have spent some of the most amusing and fun times of your life with her. On a late night call Do both of you spend late nights talking to each other over the phone for long hours? Take your time to express yourself This is particularly important if you already know this person you like pretty well. Because you can and do tell her everything.
You could write and compose your own song and sing for your partner. No matter what you are doing, you are thinking about them. She has a normal chat about guys with Anna. You know you want to spend the rest of our life with them. That's the most important thing.
How to tell her If you are in love with your best friend you have to tell her — with words! If you are in highs chool or lower id suggest that you get her number possibly ask to han … g out one day and tell her how you feel. But then I thought about it and instead imagined what it would be like if you also felt this way and thanked God for giving me these feelings. Best of luck to you. This makes it all the more romantic. I have the greatest friends in the world in which I'm very fortunate. It sounds to me like your friend is just a little bit confused about what to do in this situation and they may be considering dating but aren't sure what path they should take.
If you feel it, say it. If you really want to tell him, make sure it's just the two of you, not near his friends, which would embarrass him. There are people in my life who I love, but no one affects me the way that you do. Counting the moments between text messages, thinking that everything would be so much better if only you were near. Best friends are sometimes a once in a lifetime thing. The situation might be a little awkward for them if they are not ready.
Best friends are God sent. I felt disappointed at first, but then I felt freed. As a few days pass and both of you have a lot of interesting conversations with each other, this person will start to get addicted to speaking with you even without realizing it! This article has also been viewed 139,486 times. If she is one of them, let her know she is an angel for putting up with your shit. Simply go to her and say: thank you for encouraging me to change, grow and love life. They will eventually call on you for help if they firmly believe they have an established trust with you. Perhaps, your date just needs more time to think about it.
Remind her of those days when you laughed yourself to tears, as you have never done before, and take her memory back to your first trip together. If she is the one you call in good times, and, especially bad, then let her know. My husband and I were best friends for two years before he came out of the blue to me and proclaimed his love. I should have embarrassed myself much sooner! Pick a spot from where you can see the sky clearly. You may feel shy, awkward, or just confused at first. At the end of the night, you could spill those three words while watching the sun rise. This kind of news deserves to be heard in real life.
I don't want to mess up what we have as friends, I was just curious if you had ever thought about it. Then, send a message of love to your best friend while pretending to be that other person. To allow a safe platform for people to better express the value of friendship in their life without fear of judgement or ridicule. If they talk about something positive that happened to them, then commend them for it. It sounds stupid I know but it works. Bad move; I realize he has to move fast but not that fast love is out of the question for not even being together yet. I can only hope you feel the same way.
It seems to me that there is a lot of well thought out, good advice on this thread. There's no other way to know. Contributors: from As the old saying goes, actions speak louder than words. What if he misunderstood and thought I was in love with him? Because you know she truly has your best interests at heart. A best friend is the person who picks you up, makes you smile, and allows you to be you without judging. Or just ambush your kiddo for lots of giggles. So, hopefully, through showing love first, it becomes easier to let all the harder emotions flow out behind it; the self-doubt, the anxiety, the depression, the fears and the dark thoughts we hide from our closest friends, sometimes even from ourselves.